*Stretches and yawns* I begin to adjust my eyes to the darkness. The first thing I realize… I have clearly drunk a lot the previous night. Wait is it morning? My vision begins to clear. By the looks of this room… I am definitely at the Westin. I’d recognize this room decor in the dark. […]
Life As A Mistress
Life as a Mistress (Right or Wrong) – A post written from the point of view of “the other woman” infidelity is always a relevant topic but we never really hear from the person who is being cheated with. How it started, why it started, why she continues. Perks , benefits pros and cons…. So […]
When Did Dating Become So Complex?
I was having a chat with one of my best friends in the whole world today. We haven’t spoken in a few months; both of us have been so busy. My career is taking off and work keeps me busy all the time. She recently had her first child so she is acclimating herself to […]
Flavor #2 – The Sugar Daddy
Only the lucky girls find these. This guy is usually a considerable amount older than you. He’s the “I need my hair and nails done” guy. He has a great Career and a nice car. Most of the time divorced with kids’ right around your age. He feels old and you make him feel young […]
Flavor #1 – The Dater
I have this theory that most Single Gals need more than one man in their life. Think about it… how is it humanly possible for just one person to give you everything you need? Most men aren’t willing and out of those who are… their means, availability, intelligence or overall sex appeal prevent them from […]
Extra Curricular Activites Pt. 3 – The Mistress
And finally we come to the most important … “the Mistress” This woman can come from anywhere at any time. She does not have a man of her own. In some cases she will want your man for herself, in any smart case… she knows better. This is “the other Woman” in your Man’s […]
Extra-Curricular Activities pt. 2 “Homie-Lover-Friend”
HOMIE –LOVER-FRIEND Most often an old girlfriend, friend from the past or business associate. She understands him and listens to him. She’s the one he calls when he doesn’t know what to do with your fussing ass. Every few months, even once a year… they meet up and have hot sweaty sex then they go […]
EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES Part 1: Starbucks Girl
I have this theory that the Mistress (or Side Chick if you must) at times is an integral piece to a successful relationship. WAIT…. Don’t log off. I know you’re thinking WHAT THE HELL IS THIS WOMAN TALKIN ABOUT??? But just bare with me…. I like to think of it as extra-curricular activities. There are […]
Confessions: Part 1
I feel like I’m searching for Love… but all I find is Lust. That’s my fault though. I got some issues with trust. It’s not that I don’t trust them… I really just don’t trust myself Seems like every time I get close I just sabotage myself Like the Good Dude I met from […]
Day Dreaming….
I keep having these wet Daydreams. No matter where I am. They just creep into my mind at the most random times. The triggers vary… smells, taste, music and of course sight. I literally catch myself squirming in my seat. My legs crossed, clenched tight and holding on for dear life. It feels like I’m […]
