“I wanna Fuck the shit out of you”, “I’m gon beat it up”, “I’ll tare that Pussy up”! I’m sorry but when did these become the universal statements for Good Sex? No part of that even sounds attractive… it sounds painful! Isn’t sex supposed to be mutually gratifying? Why the hell would I want you to beat , tare, or fuck the shit out of me? Has four play completely fallen off the radar? And don’t give me that “oral sex” bullshit! Men have FOREVER perverted oral sex. Some how society has made it so a Woman who performs fellatio on a Man is degrading herself; and a Man who performs Cunnilingus on a Woman … isnt really a Man at all! Something that was intended to be sensual intimate pleasurable experience between two people, has turned into a game of numbers for immature boys and wishful thinking for some Women. We live in the era of RIGHT NOW! Our need to have everything move so fast has transcended into the bedroom. Seems like its all about the act itself… wham bam thank you ma’am!
Good Sex is like a good 5 Course Meal. There are layers and stages. Its like we’ve decided we “don’t have time” for the whole meal… just give us the Entree. What happened to Flirting? Good ol’ fashioned… I think you’re cute smiling, teasing, flirting? These days if you show interest in someone you’re labeled “thirsty”. Do people still even make “Slow Jams” playlist? Ladies do you remember when you knew your Man was coming over… making that “love making” playlist. Choosing all the songs to set the mood? Remember when Real Men made them too? When’s the last time you even heard somebody use the term “make love” or “love making”? Remember Anticipation? You know that time between the time you meet someone…. decide that you like them… DATE them… and eventually become intimate. The time you spend imagining them in their most open state. Appreciating and standing in awe and splendor! Its like we are in such a hurry, that we won’t even wait for Someone we REALLY like. We won’t wait for the person that gives you butterflies when you see them. We settle for pleasant to the eyes and you don’t get on my nerves that much!
When’s the last time you had someone in your life that you couldn’t wait to see or hear from? Somebody that makes you smile when you think of them? Somebody that you ENJOY spending time with? Why do we deny ourselves so many simple pleasures in life? Woman was given to Man as his “help mate” NOT Burden! We’re supposed to help get each other through the trials of this life!
We have the ability to provide the HIGHEST pleasure to one another using ONLY ourselves. Lips, Tongue, Finger Tips! Stimulate the body and stimulate the mind. Provide escape from the outside world. Give each other what we all need … RELEASE!
I for one… believe that Sex should be an event… not just an act. Let’s swing an episode… have a session. Its a shame when a Blunt lasts longer than Sex!
Lets take a Hot bath together. Bathe each other by candlelight. I want a man who wants to lick Chocolate Syrup off my body. I’ll massage you from head to toe. Trace each others bodies with our finger tips. Find our erogenous zones. Make love to the Rhythm of an old Jodeci track. What happened to words like… slow, passionately, long, deep? Let’s see if we really can make love all night! I see that I’m turning you on… and it turns me on… that I turn you on. I want THAT life. ENJOY me, lose yourself in me for a while. The ultimate lover is the one who gets their high from seeing their partner pleasured!
Lets take a few hours to make the rest of both our weeks THAT much better. Ladies and Gentlemen… we need to come together (literally) 🙂 to bring the Passion back to our bedrooms … and our lives.
Good Sex is like a good 5 Course Meal. There are layers and stages. Its like we’ve decided we “don’t have time” for the whole meal… just give us the Entree. What happened to Flirting? Good ol’ fashioned… I think you’re cute smiling, teasing, flirting? These days if you show interest in someone you’re labeled “thirsty”. Do people still even make “Slow Jams” playlist? Ladies do you remember when you knew your Man was coming over… making that “love making” playlist. Choosing all the songs to set the mood? Remember when Real Men made them too? When’s the last time you even heard somebody use the term “make love” or “love making”? Remember Anticipation? You know that time between the time you meet someone…. decide that you like them… DATE them… and eventually become intimate. The time you spend imagining them in their most open state. Appreciating and standing in awe and splendor! Its like we are in such a hurry, that we won’t even wait for Someone we REALLY like. We won’t wait for the person that gives you butterflies when you see them. We settle for pleasant to the eyes and you don’t get on my nerves that much!
When’s the last time you had someone in your life that you couldn’t wait to see or hear from? Somebody that makes you smile when you think of them? Somebody that you ENJOY spending time with? Why do we deny ourselves so many simple pleasures in life? Woman was given to Man as his “help mate” NOT Burden! We’re supposed to help get each other through the trials of this life!
We have the ability to provide the HIGHEST pleasure to one another using ONLY ourselves. Lips, Tongue, Finger Tips! Stimulate the body and stimulate the mind. Provide escape from the outside world. Give each other what we all need … RELEASE!
I for one… believe that Sex should be an event… not just an act. Let’s swing an episode… have a session. Its a shame when a Blunt lasts longer than Sex!
Lets take a Hot bath together. Bathe each other by candlelight. I want a man who wants to lick Chocolate Syrup off my body. I’ll massage you from head to toe. Trace each others bodies with our finger tips. Find our erogenous zones. Make love to the Rhythm of an old Jodeci track. What happened to words like… slow, passionately, long, deep? Let’s see if we really can make love all night! I see that I’m turning you on… and it turns me on… that I turn you on. I want THAT life. ENJOY me, lose yourself in me for a while. The ultimate lover is the one who gets their high from seeing their partner pleasured!
Lets take a few hours to make the rest of both our weeks THAT much better. Ladies and Gentlemen… we need to come together (literally) 🙂 to bring the Passion back to our bedrooms … and our lives.
